This video is for anyone who has trouble finding their life's purpose, especially those who grew up with emotional abuse or a dysfunctional family. You may have learned to be a people pleaser or a doormat, or that you had to be someone other than yourself to get love and to fit into the family unit.

While this is what you had to do to survive, it kept you from developing the most important relationship you will ever have, and that is the relationship with yourself. In getting to know yourself, you discover your strengths, gifts and talents.

As we develop self-love and self-esteem, we learn to appreciate the aspects of our personalities that make us unique. When we grow up in a dysfunctional home, those parts of our personality are often seen as being negative.

You may have followed a certain career path because it was expected of you, because it would be acceptable to your family or culture, or because it gave you the particular lifestyle you wanted, even if you don't particularly enjoy the work.

I encourage you to consider what you do naturally and easily, what you could do for hours without noticing that time flies by. Consider aspects of your personality that are innate and that you do naturally. There is some area where these traits will serve you well. They are gifts that you came into this world with.

If we start to identify what our purpose is, we may get caught up in discounting them because it won't make money, it won't be able to sustain us, we don't have the time to teach ourselves certain skills given where we are in our lives, or maybe we're afraid or lack the courage. These are all normal things to feel, but I encourage you to not let them stop you. They're excuses keeping you from what would give you joy. All you need is the desire. You'll figure out the next steps as you go.

-Renee

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